Update various wheel dependencies

The important one is Boost; while there are no asio changes, Homebrew
deleted the old formula for 1.85, breaking the build.

.ci/before_all_linux.sh

@@ -5,9 +5,9 @@
 set -e -u
 
 sccache_version=0.5.4
-rdma_core_version=52.0
+rdma_core_version=53.0
 pcap_version=1.10.4
-boost_version=1.85.0
+boost_version=1.86.0
 boost_version_under=${boost_version//./_}
 
 yum install -y cmake3 ninja-build flex bison libnl3-devel

.ci/install-sys-pkgs.sh

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ if [ "$(uname -s)" = "Linux" ]; then
         libdivide-dev
 else
     brew update
-    brew install ninja boost@1.85 libdivide
+    brew install ninja boost@1.86 libdivide
     # The MacOS images have an outdated Rust and the line above breaks it.
     brew upgrade rustup
     # On Apple Silicon, homebrew is installed in /opt/homebrew, but the

.github/workflows/test.yml

@@ -230,7 +230,7 @@ jobs:
         run: ./.ci/install-sys-pkgs.sh
       - name: Install Python dependencies
         run: ./.ci/py-requirements.sh
-      - run: pip install build==0.10.0
+      - run: pip install build==1.2.1
       - run: python -m build --sdist .
       - uses: actions/upload-artifact@v4
         with: