chore: upgrade dependencies, toolchain, and other changes #75

Job	Run time
stable - x86_64-apple-darwin - node@18	43s
stable - x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@18	1m 53s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@18	1m 52s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@18	1m 35s
stable - aarch64-apple-darwin - node@18	43s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@18	1m 52s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@18	1m 29s
stable - aarch64-pc-windows-msvc - node@18	3m 1s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@16	17s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@16	23s
Test bindings on x86_64-apple-darwin - node@16	51s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@18	21s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@16	24s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@18	17s
Test bindings on x86_64-apple-darwin - node@18	1m 5s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	21s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@18	26s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@20	18s
Test bindings on x86_64-apple-darwin - node@20	49s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	25s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@16	3m 26s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@	24s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@18	3m 27s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	3m 40s
Publish	12s
	30m 14s

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