DB scale out

[gedw99]

https://github.com/maxpert/marmot

this will automatically make the DB scale out of fly. its uses NATS.
It can works on any cloud, bare metal ad on premise. Its nats, and not dependent on fly or anything.

here is how a nats cluster is setup to scale a sqlite db: https://github.com/maxpert/marmot/tree/master/examples